Refuse in Thai
“Refuse” in Thai is ปฏิเสธbpà-dtì-sèet; you'll also hear ไม่ยอมmâi yawm (refuse to, won't).
to refuse, to turn down; to deny verb
- bpà low
- dtì low
- sèet low
- Low: flat and lower than your normal voice, dropping a little at the end.
to refuse to, won't (do something) verb
- mâi falling
- yawm mid
- Falling: start high and drop clearly, like a firm “No!”
How to use it
ปฏิเสธbpà-dtì-sèet is the general word for turning something down or denying it, a little formal in everyday talk. The everyday way to say someone refuses to do something is ไม่ยอมmâi yawm, "doesn't give in": ไม่ยอมจ่ายmâi yawm jàai, refuses to pay.
A flat "no" can sound harsh in Thai. Turning down an invitation goes down better with a thank-you or a "next time": ไว้คราวหน้าwái kraao nâa, maybe next time.
Other spellings you'll see
There's no single official way to write Thai in English letters. We mark the tone of every syllable; online you'll also find:
- patiset
- pa ti set
- bpatiseet
- mai yom
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