In-laws in Thai

Thai names your in-laws by side: your wife's parents are พ่อตาแม่ยายpâw-dtaa mâe-yaai and your husband's parents พ่อแม่สามีpâw-mâe sǎa-mii.

พ่อตาแม่ยาย pâw-dtaa mâe-yaai

your wife's parents noun

  • pâw falling
  • dtaa mid
  • mâe falling
  • yaai mid
  • Falling: start high and drop clearly, like a firm “No!”

พ่อแม่สามี pâw-mâe sǎa-mii

your husband's parents noun

  • pâw falling
  • mâe falling
  • sǎa rising
  • mii mid
  • Falling: start high and drop clearly, like a firm “No!”
  • Rising: start low, dip, then rise to the top, like a doubtful “Really?”

How to use it

Thai has no single word for in-laws: you name them by whose family they are. Your wife's parents are พ่อตาแม่ยายpâw-dtaa mâe-yaai, the same words as a child's grandparents on the mother's side, and your husband's parents พ่อแม่สามีpâw-mâe sǎa-mii. To their faces, many people call their in-laws คุณพ่อkun-pâw and คุณแม่kun-mâe.

A man who marries into a family is its เขยkǒei, and a woman its สะใภ้sà-pái: that's where the words for son-in-law, daughter-in-law and a sibling's spouse come from.

Other spellings you'll see

There's no single official way to write Thai in English letters. We mark the tone of every syllable; online you'll also find:

  • pho ta mae yai
  • por ta mae yai
  • pho mae sami

More family in Thai

All family
  • ครอบครัว krâwp-krua Family
  • พ่อ pâw Father

    father, dad

  • แม่ mâe Mother

    mother, mum

  • ภรรยา pan-rá-yaa Wife

    wife (polite)

  • สามี sǎa-mii Husband

    husband (polite)

  • แฟน faen Boyfriend or girlfriend

    boyfriend, girlfriend

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Written by the Learn Thai For Free team
Audio: AI voices, quality-checked for tones