Shy in Thai

“Shy” in Thai is ขี้อายkîi-aai; you'll also hear อายaai (feeling shy) and เขินkǒen (flustered).

ขี้อาย kîi-aai

shy (by nature) adjective

  • kîi falling
  • aai mid
  • Falling: start high and drop clearly, like a firm “No!”
Parts: ขี้kîi prone to (before a habit or trait) อายaai shy, embarrassed

อาย aai

shy, embarrassed; ashamed adjective feeling shy

  • aai mid
  • Mid: level, in your normal speaking voice.

เขิน kǒen

flustered, bashful (blushing at a compliment or a crush) adjective

  • kǒen rising
  • Rising: start low, dip, then rise to the top, like a doubtful “Really?”

How to use it

ขี้อายkîi-aai is a shy person, from อายaai, to feel shy or embarrassed: ไม่ต้องอายmâi dtâwng aai, don't be shy. When a compliment or a crush makes you blush, the word is เขินkǒen, flustered. The prefix ขี้kîi turns a feeling into a trait, like -prone in English: ขี้เกียจkîi-gìat is lazy and ขี้หึงkîi-hǔeng the jealous type.

Other spellings you'll see

There's no single official way to write Thai in English letters. We mark the tone of every syllable; online you'll also find:

  • khi ai
  • kee eye
  • kiai
  • khi aai
  • kern
  • khoen
  • kheun

More feelings in Thai

All feelings
  • มีความสุข mii kwaam-sùk Happy

    to be happy

  • เสียใจ sǐa-jai Sad
  • ซึมเศร้า suem-sâo Depressed
  • เหงา ngǎo Lonely
  • คิดถึงบ้าน kít-tǔeng bâan Homesick

    homesick (literally 'miss home')

  • ร้องไห้ ráwng-hâai Cry

    to cry

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Written by the Learn Thai For Free team
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